Constantly, consistently, continually, you.

Some say- 'you don't know what you got till it's gone' and others say 'you knew what you had, you just thought that you'd never lose it.'

And everybody has to make choices. One choice can seal your fate and another choice can make or break.

As a woman, i want to be able to surround myself with fellow women who support me and the decisions i make even if they do not personally agree with themself, women who care enough about me to tell me the truth even if they know it's going to hurt.

I want to be able to surround with women and girls who are able to speak no lies and truth even when everyone around me is speaking lie about others and hiding away their feelings.

I know what kind of woman i am and i know what kind of person i am which means i know the kind of women i need to be surrounded by yet for whatever reason.

And you know, competition is everything right now. i see girls in everyday lives being blasted across the media fighting over people who are irrelevant and unnecessary in their lives yet, seen fighting and arguing over them. i see women put up against each other in the media to fight for a job position or something that they have been made to think and believe that will make their entire life perfect. girls are in competition with each other and half the time we don't even know about it. we all are live in society where it's more likely that girls won't get along with each other based on what they look like, and their role in society.

Be original, like what they said,
But hey,

We decide:)

Self-love, self-respect, self-worth... there is a reason they all start with 'self'. we cannot find them in anyone else. 

Show us more, and less them.

This isn't going to be easy and we're going to need all the support from those closest around you. It's not our fault to make them happy but they couldn't see that you are enough, it's not our fault and we need to know that we didn't do anything wrong, we did what we believe that all we do is to save the good relationship with others.

So i want to surround myself with women and girls who lifts me up and stay true just the way they are, i want to surround myself with women and girls who embrace other women as friends and sisters, and you know, not as competitors. Girls who support girls, are my kind of girls.

sincerely,

Nada.